I had never had any girls. Just boys so I understand. The first few attempts at putting Rosie's hair up was awful!
I use scrunchies for everyday use. they are easy to work with. On bow days, I use clear bands and then clip the bows in. I don't do an official topknot. Instead I just put hers up like a ponytail. Does that make any sense??? You will LOVE dressing up a girl!