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McheleM · 07-31-2012, 09:45 AM

I'm sorry, I'm just going to be blunt. I am not trying to be rude or snarky, but this is how I see it:

You came here and asked for help. People gave you their advice and opinions, and all I have seen is you responding to those opinions with excuses. You're explaining why things are the way they are, because she's sick or he used to be respectable, or she can move out and spend her trust money, etc. Bottom line is you allowed this situation, therefore you are responsible for it. You basically have 2 choices, you can do 1. Nothing or 2. Something. You have been given excellent advice. Please use some of it. making excuses and trying to explain it away isn't doing anything positive or productive. In my honest opinion, when I see people make excuses, I automatically think, they don't want the situation to really change. I hope that's not the case with you.

Exactly what life skills are they learning by paying 200.00 a month rent that's not really rent, living together under your roof, eating the meals you cook and basically doing nothing, while you clean and take care of them???

07-31-2012, 09:45 AM	#39
McheleM Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Mesquite, TX Posts: 2,659	I'm sorry, I'm just going to be blunt. I am not trying to be rude or snarky, but this is how I see it: You came here and asked for help. People gave you their advice and opinions, and all I have seen is you responding to those opinions with excuses. You're explaining why things are the way they are, because she's sick or he used to be respectable, or she can move out and spend her trust money, etc. Bottom line is you allowed this situation, therefore you are responsible for it. You basically have 2 choices, you can do 1. Nothing or 2. Something. You have been given excellent advice. Please use some of it. making excuses and trying to explain it away isn't doing anything positive or productive. In my honest opinion, when I see people make excuses, I automatically think, they don't want the situation to really change. I hope that's not the case with you. Exactly what life skills are they learning by paying 200.00 a month rent that's not really rent, living together under your roof, eating the meals you cook and basically doing nothing, while you clean and take care of them??? __________________ "You've never learned to live until you've done something for someone for which they can never repay you."~Ralph Hall. Last edited by McheleM; 07-31-2012 at 09:47 AM.