Connie, they have gone to pallitive care with Ken....Patti can talk to them about Hospice coming to her home and helping care for Ken....it is going to be sooooooo difficult for Patti to walk this part of the path with Ken, and she will need all the help and support she can get at her side....she is already emotionally drained and physically exhausted....and watching a loved one struggle to breathe is going to require every ounce of reserve she has....I hope she can find a way to leave him in hospice away from home, where she has 24 hour support and staff to help when help is needed....my friend had friends that wanted to help her, she asked they tend to her 4 Yorkies while she remained at her husbands bedside....the dogs were safe, they were in a familiar place, they were fed and watered...that is all they need at this critical point in this couples life, where the focus is where it needs to be....on Ken.... and Patti, his loved one, his loving caregiver..... |