[yorkietalkjilly]

Here's my pitiful attempt at analyzing that awful lady's behavior. I am so sorry you had to run into one of the uglier sides of human nature - that of pride. You usually see inflated pride so often when the person has an underlying inferiority complex so that they frequently compensate by creating an inflated sense of self-importance & attempted perfection out of their need for self-respect through a great sense of pride. Usually they are so uncomfortable in their own skin, they don't feel they are really worthy of any regard or that they measure up to peers & are only really satisfied once they've made others feel as badly as they do. Once they have achieved that, they don't feel so alone & finally feel some sense of satisfaction, however pitiful & fleeting that may be. They, better than anyone, know the true meaning of the phrase "misery loves company".

They usually go through their entire lives trying to achieve perfection & make a show of it in every area of their lives, will do anything to try to get it & love to belittle those, who, in their opinions, haven't achieved it. They often will marry rich, obnoxious men who treat them like used rugs but must have the man's money so they can make their outward show of perfection to the world. Often the lives they lead are those of deep inward shame at what they endure in order to achieve whatever social status they can & hate themselves for settling at the same time.

No wonder their words are often so vicious & scalding - they come from a wretched creature whose sense of great pride has caused her to sell out to the world of greed & false ideals & who knows no true happiness or personal sense of self-worth or achievement. Females like her are an embarrassment to real women.

Don't spend one more minute thinking about her sorry statements & thank the Lord you were spared her empty kind of existence. Hug your darling baby Yorkie & smile at your countless, meaningful blessings.