I think there are a lot of trust issues going on here. A "friend" does not laugh at you when you are upset. If you did not ask your friend to take your dog to the groomer then she really had no business doing it. Maybe she is not as good of a friend as you thought that she was. Have you ever discussed the topknot with her? I would not expect a friend or family member to take my dog to a different groomer, much less any groomer, without discussing it with me first. It seems a bit cruel to me to do such a thing and then laugh at you for being upset. You may want to consider who you leave your dog with in the future. This person does not respect boundaries or your feelings.
I have a feeling that your "friend" had felt for a while that your dog would look better with a different look and took advantage of her time with your dog to do what she wanted. You need to get things straight with this person and consider how far you should trust her in the future. |