Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!!
Remind your mother that coming to the wedding is her choice. If she wishes to not put aside her feelings for one special day then that is her decision. Anytime she brings it up I would remind her again that "it's her choice". Don't let her make you feel bad about inviting your father.
I couldn't imagine not being at my children's wedding and I think that your mother is being unfair to you. Stick to your decision. Whenever she brings it up again let her know "it's her choice". I think that after a while she'll get tired of bringing it up.
Just my opinion. Hope this helps and I'll say a prayer for understanding on your mother's part and for peace and calmness for you during this exciting time in your life!! |