I have definitely felt like this before - when Ringo first came home - I was used to a gentle Maltese and here came this Westie - barging through the house; ignoring EVERYTHING I said; running and hiding from us; peeing and pooping everywhere. Ugh. It was a dog for my son but you know whose dog it really is.
It actually took me some time to bond with Ringo; I had so many other responsibilities with a child at the time. But playing together, agility training (fun!) and walking toghether helped form our bond.
When I brought Lucy home - it was tough because Ringo didn't necessarily WANT another dog in the house - so lots of contention and unpleasantness until they got used to one another.
I would say that your life will change - you now have a responsibility that you did not have. You should be able to out for drinks - but you may have to run home first and let your dog out, walk your dog, etc.
If you continue to feel as you do - then I would have a chat with my breeder.
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