I really think YT needed to let some of us members vent..things have been getting heated. Reading this thread feelings and solutions or suggestions are being shared maybe we can start following some of our own good advice
The situation I had with a member is a perfect example how to stop things before they start. She PMed me to apologize, we talked through the feellings we had felt and realized we misunderstood eachother and the last thing either of us wanted was to hurt the other person. It was nice to hear her say that. Now I feel even better about this member than I did before because handled me with courtesy and respect so naturally I will treat her the same, apologized too. If some members would take their issues privately you'd be surprised the ending. It feels good too!!