I have similar things going on in my life..... a 4 year old skin child, a Yorkie, a Boxer, Husband, a full time job ect...I feel like my life revolves around all the wonderful things I listed minus the job
I can say for me it was an interesting transition from being Georgie and Coco's Mommy to being Isaiah (my skin childs) Mommy too, because at that point they were my only babies. We never left Georgie home alone period before we had Isaiah he always went to his grandparents. However, now with preschool, T-ball and all the fun stuff he stays home for 3-4 hours and much to my surprise he is just fine upon my return
When my husband and I have date night (which isn't often) the furbabies go to their grandparents too.
I don't think what you said makes you wrong just as I don't think those that their lives revolve around their furbabies are wrong either. I think we all have our priorities and as long as we put those that we love and love us at the top that's what's important