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Originally Posted by chachi  the prolem is what one person sees as rude another sees as direct. I am a direct person and it comes accross in my postings and it could e misconsude as rude when I dont mean it in a rude way. You cant read tone in written posts. I see people called rude just cause they arent aggreeing with the op or they are direct. You can e in disagrieance with someone and not e rude. We are not all going to aggree on here nor should we. This is a forum with alot of different personalities and opinons |
I agree with this.
The problem I see is that it's hard to regulate what one person sees as being 'mean' or rude and what another person sees as a statement of fact.
Fact is, we are not always going to agree on things OR how best to communicate.
I think we should all be mindful of our own posts and not spend too much time worrying about everyone elses.
I do not see YT as a hostile place. Internet forums are usually great places to debate - but you have to enjoy the back and forth. I enjoy a particular parenting forum - but I did have to develop a pretty thick skin to stay with it! I think how boring my favorite forums would be if everyone just agreed with everything.