While my husband and I didn't live together and were each only 20 when we married, I felt still very much like myself-plus when I woke up married. I just felt as if I had added something I couldn't - and still can't define - to my person. Life seemed far more special and meaningful all of a sudden. I felt suddenly as if I had a "back-up" in life - a good feeling. Overnight, "I" became a "we" and loved that change. The world was immediately a far friendlier place as a member of a team. I felt very different.
__________________  Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |