thanks i guess i will have to invest in a pen... to keep my peace of mind.. she hates being confined..but its for her own good.. she hasn't been alone yet...shes either with me or my mom.. i guess i will get a pen and start a bit at a time, thinking about it i could leave her with my grandmother in a pen that way noone could walk on her, she can't escape,etc.Hate to say this but part of me wishes i would have waited to get my baby until i was a bit older, like married with a house lol.. i know i'm going to want to travel more and go out with friends.but another part of me loves her more than anything and am so glad shes in my life..because if i would have waited i wouldn't have her

..but they're like having a little baby.hate to see what i'll be like with kids LOL!!.so i'm going to have to find a way to let this anxiety go and trust people, thanks for suggesting a pen, i think it'll be a great start for me