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Originally Posted by Mee-sha  Hi , ever since getting my baby i find i'm not hanging out with my friends on weekends anymore unless my mother watches her, i hate leaving her alone... i also still don't really trust her, shes like a vaccume and i am always pulling something out of her mouth. My grandmother can watch her anytime,but shes older and just had surgery,shes so great with animals but meesha is so squirmy and quick.. she accidently dropped my baby last time i was over there, which made me not want to let her watch her ,and my uncle lives there with her to to take care of her but he's so absent minded i'm scared he'll step on her or accidently let her out the door.But it is great she is offering to watch her for free anytime..i just wish i could let go and trust.. I am an overprtective mommy and i don't know how to let go of this anxiety. I just would never forgive myself if she died while someone was watching her, the only one i trust to watch her is my mother. Was anyone else like this about thier baby, if so how did you get over it?, will i trust her more when shes an adult? I find when i am out with my friends i'm finding myself wanting to just go home and be with her. |
My wife and I seem to be just like you.We do not trust anybody with our Gabby.We are afraid of people feeding her human food or something that may be toxic to her,little ones picking her up and squeezing her or even dropping her,letting her outside without leash and the list goes on. When we do go out for a few hours we will talk about her.