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Originally Posted by Dazzles  As a new member I can say that I don't post that often because I do see people getting attacked for their lack of knowledge. I almost think "How are we supposed to know if we don't ask?"
Believe it or not, the internet is not the easiest place to navigate. When researching Yorkie info -- you often find this site. Opinions change, facts and techniques become outdated -- sometimes it is best to ask. That is how we learn!
Sometimes you just need support, but sometimes you do need to hear it directly and bluntly, which I can totally admit.
I think the big thing is placing blame on an owner after-the-fact. When something is done -- you can say 'next time you might want to...' rather than "You should have, a good owner would have, etc". The EXACT same response, but worded to be more friendly. It is all about good communication. If something happens to your dog, you feel bad enough without a bunch of strangers acting like they've never made a mistake.
I, personally, haven't been attacked on the forums and will be posting a LOT of questions as we are going through huge changes with my puppy -- but I just wanted to throw it out there that from a completely new owner/new member perspective it does seem like some members expect you to be perfect yorkie owners with years of experience.
Rather than offering support and advice, they can be a bit condescending and not realize that they, too, were new at the Yorkie game! I hope to take advantage of the wealth of knowledge here and ask in advance to be forgiven for what I didn't already know.
Much love to you and your babies!
~Dazz |
You have a good point. I remember when I first got my Rosie. I was clueless.
I learned so much on here. I have noticed that the advice is sometimes taken the wrong way. I always kept in mind that what ever advice was given to me was in the best interest of my pup. Whether I wanted to hear it or not. The members were truly concerned about her well being. I do think sometimes people "don't want to hear it". If that makes sense. And many times it is all how you handle the situation. Please post your questions as you have found a place with so much experience that can really help you as a new Yorkie owner. I have learned so much from so many members here. I will forever be grateful to them.