I would offer one weekend a month (splitting the fees) and each vacation- winter, spring, and summer. I know you offered a month over summer vacation, but I think you would have a better chance if you were to offer the entire vacation. I know that your husband is being transferred and either takes the job or loses it, but as others have said, the courts may side against you. Has your husband looked for other employment in the area/state? If you take your son away from his father, you risk your son growing to resent you for that fact. If your son is of age, I think you should ask him with whom he wants to live. I wish you all the best of luck with this situation. |