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Originally Posted by Francie Did you discuss with your husband the repercussions of accepting this job? In my state...it is illegal to move a child out of state. And although this would be a sound financial move for you, this decision prevents your son's father from spending significant amount of time co-raising his son...which is his legal right. Perhaps you should consider leaving your son with his father, and per your suggestion, having him fly to see you once a month, and on holidays...etc. I guess the most important question is ...what is best for your son? I don't know the legal ramifications in your state...but I'm not sure how the courts would feel about having you take your husband's son away from him for a significant period of time and also force him to assume the financial burden to transport him back to spend time with him. This must be a very hard time for both you, your husband, and your son...
Francie
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Yes, we did discuss everything. The thing is that the education is far better in North Carolina then here. I am living in the hell hole of the earth right now and the crime rates and everything are few less in North Carolina. Another big thing is with the rising costs of insurances and taxes here I can no longer afford to live in this area. We have outgrown our house and can't afford to buy a bigger house as something that is comparable to a house in North Carolina would be almost 800,000 here.. In NC it's right around 250,000. I'm scared to death to go to court, but in the same sense if I stay where I'm at it might mean loosing my house.