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Originally Posted by DaisyMaesMom The thing of the matter is that I don't have a choice. Either my husband and my children with him leave me or I leave my son here?? I have to move... My husband is being transferred.. |
Did you discuss with your husband the repercussions of accepting this job? In my state...it is illegal to move a child out of state. And although this would be a sound financial move for you, this decision prevents your son's father from spending significant amount of time co-raising his son...which is his legal right. Perhaps you should consider leaving your son with his father, and per your suggestion, having him fly to see you once a month, and on holidays...etc. I guess the most important question is ...what is best for your son? I don't know the legal ramifications in your state...but I'm not sure how the courts would feel about having you take your husband's son away from him for a significant period of time and also force him to assume the financial burden to transport him back to spend time with him. This must be a very hard time for both you, your husband, and your son...
Francie
Francie