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Originally Posted by chachi I agree you have to be realistic to what society is today and yes there are Men out there up to no good so why intice them. It is also a matter of having some self respect and self worth. And that comes from the inside not the outside. |

As for the original question of this thread, would I call what happened rape? Probably not. Did she deserve what happened to her? Absolutely not if she did not want it to. But did she do anything that would indicate to the man that she did not want him to do what he did?
I have never found myself in this position but I could think of one thing that would give him a solid idea that I did not want his advances...a swift kick in the groin. And I'd like to think that I would not find myself driven out to a remote area with someone I did not want to be there with.