I've never heard of a Jack and Jill either, they just don't happen around here!
I met with my friend's mom on the weekend, who is supplying all of our candles for free
She sells candles and said she offers the same thing to every wedding in their family, or special people to them. Her daughter is my matron of honor, and we've been best friends our whole lives! Anyways, my mom and I went over and took the candle holders and found some great turquoise colored tealights to use.
I know I still have a lot of time left, but I've been thinking about hairstyles! I watched the Oscars last week and I kind of fell in love with Tina Fey's hair. I had thought I'd wear my hair down, but now I really love the look of that classic elegant updo! We'll see, I still have time to think about it