I've never had a female, so I can't answer you, but for males, they suggest growing a pee string that directs the flow of urine. It really works and Joey doesn't splatter pee all over, I wonder if this would work on a female? The pee string doesn't have to be that long. This page has more information, see "Trimming Urination Area of a Dog"
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