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					Originally Posted by  DadofJude     Both to which I have given her already and I certainlty have given her the gift of love as well.. she is my friend above all else and even if we aren't lovers.. Love is still in friendship.   
I meant valuable as in most expensive.   |  
 
  
There is a saying that men can not do two things at the same time..... 
A man in love can not be rational at the same time. 
I am sure you would know that when I used the word "love" it was meant as the romantic type, but love is blind so there is no point in me harping on about it. 
I hope all goes well for you and nobody gets hurt in any way. 
I am unable to understand why it is so important to purchase an expensive gift.
When my wife and I were walking down a street in town I asked her to stop and wait for me whilst I went into a florist and purchased a single rose.
On returning I presented it to her and told her that I loved her dearly. 
She has never forgotten the first time I did it and will relate her story at every opportunity she gets. This was eleven years ago when we were both 59 and courting.
We are both 70 years old now and I still do it and she still loves the gesture more than any gift I have ever purchased for her. 
Women are like that you know.