Well I have to say I am happy to read this thread.
I was getting to think I was the only person with this problem.
I have four little babies three of which will go potty outside. They tell us by going to the outside door in the room we live in mostly (Conservatory).
When we open the door we say "wee wee's kids" and all four run out.
They do whatever it is they want then come and knock at the door.
We can see them outside on the patio so we know they have been toilet.
When we let them in one of the girls pees on the carpet. She will actually look at you in the eye whilst doing it. (not shy this girl).
We yell "NO NO" and pick her up and put her outside again.
She will stand in the spot you put her down on and just look at the door until we open it and invite her in.
This little lady is six months old and proving so difficult to potty train.
I am told it will eventually happen and we are doing things right (by the so called experts) but it is going to take time.
I sympathise with your problem and understand your frustration but why it is always the females we have difficulty with....hmmmmmmmm....
