I am so glad she is doing so well! Sounds like your doing everything perfectly. What worked for me after Taycie's spay was using baby onesies. I just bought the newborn ones. I loved them and she never was able to lick the area.. and they are super cute
As for grooming.. I still groomed Taycie.. I was extra careful around her incision.. I think you will be just fine! I just didn't use any sprays for her coat to be extra careful nothing would get into it!
Loves and Hugs for KS!