Get rid of the controlling husband. He's selfish. I have a friend like this also the only difference is he won't let her have a dog or cat, but she has hampsters, lizzards and other creatures. He used to go off on cruises with his son for months at a time and she would be alone with her critters. Then his son got married and he stays home and complains about her critters. She finally told him if he didn't like her pets to get out so far he's still there complaining |