First of all let me just say I am so sorry you are dealing with all this. It is so hard I know. I have a sibling that got mixed up in drugs and tore our family apart for a bit. I will say this, Steve is right, She has to be the one to decide to make that first step. You can tell them and tell them. Until they realize they have a problem nothing will work. My sibling had to hit rock bottom before the realization sat in. Now, it is much better. We all talked until we were blue in the face. Once the sibling decided to to through drug rehab, things got so much better. It worked because the sibling decided to do it not us. So, basically it is up to her to make that decision. Also, I would recommend the support group as well. It really does help to see that others understand what you are going through. They are trained to deal with this and can give you much better advice. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you go through all this. Hugs to you sweetie. |