Well the battle has been lost.
She told me just now, she is going to visit the puppies she isn't going to take the one that hides in the corner, and she isn't going to take the first one that jumps on her, she wants the middle one... that is playful but not needy and not too shy.
I asked her about dew claws and those have been done already, she is taking it home at 8 weeks getting all its needles done and vet check.
She doesn't know what it's going to be fed, she doesn't know how much needles cost, or spay/neuter, She also doesn't seem to care if her brand new white lazy boy couch gets hair or peed on.
which I find that odd considering Harley isn't allowed on the furniture without there being a blanket down and he doesn't shed.
Thanks for all your help everyone. She isn't getting it until Dec 30 I think, so we'll see how it turns out.