I have a Motorola Droid 2. I like it a lot. Battery life on it is pretty good except when Wi-Fi is on all the time, then it does not last a full day. But Ive had mine over a year now and the battery w/o Wi-Fi on lasts 2-3 days at least. I have 3G and it also works great, never had a problem getting online, GPS always works if I need it. I love the Swype functionality, where you can just slide your finger over the letters to text and it makes the words. Utube works really well, the speaker phone is loud enough on it (I always talk on speaker phone).
I really cannot complain about my Droid at all.
I have an iPad also. Never had an iPhone. My iPad is uumm... different. I am not a die hard apple person at all. Had I been able to play with the iPad before I bought it I might have gone with a different tablet. Main reason is no flash player! Soooo annoying!
Also I have a VERY hard time getting my iPad to work on our wireless network at home. We have 4 laptops in the house and they all work great, but the iPad always has issues with the wireless. I end up on 3G which I end up paying more for but I want to use my iPad. That is the most annoying thing with it.