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  Man I'd be pissed if I were in your situation.  Is bf also working 4 jobs?  If not, then I think it IS your place to say.  Either that, or make it more difficult for her to live there.  Hide the laundry detergent so she has to buy her own and not use yours.  Don't cook for her, only for bf and yourself, etc.  You've been nice too long.  Esp after you telling us her parents live down the street.  She's not your kid!  
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