Ahhh, the "J" word, I knew it would be thrown around sooner or later as soon as the OP didn't hear what she wanted.
Let's see, a dog is snuck in to a house, left outside, dumped on someone else after 2 months and then the OP starts another thread proclaiming her husband the "problem" and wanting advice on how to convince him to do something he has been very clear that he does not want.
Yep, I can totally see how judgmental posters are the problem
(Goes to sit on the curb and wait for the inevitable 3 page blah, blah, blah from the polite police.)