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Originally Posted by OwnedByJezebel

The thing that always make me roll my eyes: Someone asks for advice, and, of course, others do just that. Then someone pops up and call the first responders "judgmental," only because they really don't agree with the advice that has been given.

The ironic thing, though, is in order for them them to determine that the previous posters are judgmental, it requires them to pass judgment themselves!

I've said it before and I'll say it again: Call me judgmental and I''ll wear it proudly. If you ask me for advice, you are asking me what the right thing is to do. Very simple. After that, if you accuse me of being judgmental, then you are only saying that my opinion is only valid if my opinion agrees with yours. So if agree with you, I can voice my opinion, if I disagree with you, I should shut my mouth.

Accusing someone of being judgmental is only a way of trying to silence someone of voicing their opinion, while in turn being judgmental yourself!

I really agree with you. It is a forum full of all different kinds of opinions and advice and there is room for more than just one kind and thats what they dont see and wont see because they think their kind of advice is superior and it just comes out so clearly in their posts