I understand his wife needing to get out of the situation before it escalated to him harming her or killing the dog. However, his life is officially ruined, he will now be paying at lrast half his paycheck to her for the rest of his career because unfortunately the military cares more about dependents then the members themselves. I get that she needed out of the situation but you meddled and his career and possibly life is over. The dog should have been removed and wife should've left but there were ways she could have done so without destroying his career. There are family advocacy groups on every base. Guess what his unit thinks now, that he is a wife bearer. Another shinig example of a military spouse f-ING the member.
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Originally Posted by Kimchi and Kitt  Good news!!
Today I urged my husband to talk to the chain of command and tell them whats going on, and he did. After that they started an investigation and had her husband on lockdown. she didnt know this. Then I urged her to talk to the chain of command, after hours of me pressuring her, and telling her things would work out she finally did.
her husband is on 24/7 watch. he can not be alone for any time at all. He has to take mandatory therapy for anger, abuse and alcohol. he is not allowed back into their home and is not allowed to leave a barrack room, except to work. He cannot contact her in any way, FB, text or call and that is a zero tolerance policy. He cannot return to their home at all except for 30 mins while she is gone to collect his belongings. after that he cant EVER go back not even after she leaves Korea. They are paying her way back home, and trying to figure out what will happen with the dog. Their number one priority right now is her safety.
Im so glad she took this step for her and her pup. I think she was scared that the army wouldn't do anything or that her husband would cut her off financially and she would be stuck but I told her they wouldnt let that happen, and that the army is on her side. im so glad she got to see how many people are taking this seriously.
Thank you all for your concern. |