I don't think you are the one at fault at all. If you want to you could call the xwife and talk to her.. otherwise stick with the people who are mature enough to communicate with you.
I have had issues with a sister in law. I got so tired of being the bad guy all the time. She did not speak to me for over a year because I didn't toast her at a party. Now remember, I don't drink much and did not have a drink, was looking out for my children (the girls were about 10ish at the time) was pissed because my husband was drinking too much..did not even notice a toast was being made for her.. but I was the bad guy. The sad part is I didn't even notice she wasnt talking to me until her husband called my dh to complain about me. Last year I put my foot down, I refuse to spend time with the in laws!! It is so much nicer!!!
Sorry-- I didn't mean to vent on your vent.. but I just feel your pain!!!!
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