[Danirenae]

I agree with everyone. Its your money!!

Through some devastating circumstances, my husband and I are more financially set than my mother. Because of this, I felt like I couldnt even tell my mother about Bella and what DH spent on her. Sad, but true.

After a while I was like "its my life, my money, my decision. I shouldn't have to hide her from the rest of the family! Bella is a part of my family!"

Now when it comes to my brother-in-law, he thinks he runs the whole family....not true. I don't tell him how much she was. Its not his business. He doesn't pay my bills or mortgage, or even live with us! All he needs to know is that we care for her and she is ours.