It is so important to teach young children to show respect to all animals. Studies show that children who mistreat animals grow up to be abusive to humans as well. It sounds like you are having discipline problems with this child without the dog involved. It's an issue that will only get worse if you and your husband do not work it out now. This child knows he does not have to respect you or your authority over him and his father is supporting that attitude.
Personally, I think it is unfair to the dog to make it stay in a crate in order to protect it from the child but I guess you have to do something to protect the puppy. I would put a leash on her and keep the leash attached to you at all times. That way you can be sure to be on top of the potty training and also keep the puppy safe from a child that cannot be trusted. This is a sad but serious situation for both you and the puppy. Please don't leave her unattended for a second. Only let the child play with the puppy when you are right there with him. |