[jmdt]

Remember...once it is all said and done...the flowers and all that stuff wont matter. Enjoy your engagement. Do you remember the last wedding you went to??? Do you remember what the invitations looked like or what the centerpiece on the table looked like??? Probably not. Keep it simple dont get stressed. Get what you like, even if it is just 1 rose in a budvase on each table. Who cares. Your guests are there for you and they want to see you. If the cake has chocolate pudding or strawberry fulling will it really be a big deal. Relax you are making yourself nuts. People really dont look at that stuff. Do you when you go to a wedding??? I dont think so. My only advice is to get a good photographer and videographer. Everything else will be gone in 4 hrs.
Take a deep breath and relax.

My husband and I put a binder on a house and got engaged on the same day. We had all the new house buying crap to do and all the wedding planning to do it was nuts. Just keep it simple and elegant. The most important thing is that you are marrying someone that you love dearly. The rest will just come. If it rains than it will rain who cares you cant do anything about it. You are still going to be married so who cares. Relax you will be fine.