Thank you guys!
She loved her flowers and card! I made her cry, but it was a good cry. I also made her this in memory "letter" type. I just made it on Microsoft office
I put on the top in really pretty cursive "In Memory of Roscoe" then I found this painting that someone had did of their dog, but it looked 100% like Roscoe. I copied and pasted that in the middle, then I copied and pasted a really pretty poem about loosing a beloved dog.
OMG she LOVED that, she said that she was going to frame it and keep it forever! That made me feel really good that the in memory letter I "hand made" her meant a lot to her!! Of course she loved the flowers but that letter really touched her! I told her that she should get a shadow box and make a little in memory of Roscoe, that might help her cope.
She told me a little more of what happened. She thinks that Roscoe was getting upset that this guy was on the roof trimming the trees, that he got really excited and over heated, and it went down hill from there. She said when they were at the vet he was still alive but he wasnt there, the vet told her that she can take him to the ER, but there is a chance he wont make it, and there is a chance that he wont be the same dog because he did had brain damage.
She was blaming herself for it, she said that she wished she was there to help him. I told her that she did everything that she could have done.
It was a hard day, but I tried to keep her laughing or talking to her in general. She told me some funny stories about Roscoe , which I think helped her. I think in the end she will be ok. By the middle of the day her poor eyes were getting less swollen. Then I left work and she told me that she had a break down.. I pray for her that it will get easier, this has really been the first death she has delt with, me on the other hand have lost a lot of loved ones.
Thank you guys for supporting me in this as well. It is so crazy, he wasnt my dog, but I am so hurt as well. Hurt for her bc I know she is very sad.