Funny that I find this thread when I get on here. Princess just missed the pad & DD discovered it first, I told her to wipe it up with the pad. She said "I can't touch those, they have pee on them".
I told her the clean ones don't.
As for rarely wanting other help I have to throw in her face that she wanted Princess, too. Then she'll do whatever. Basically whatever needs to be done in a timely manner I do myself.