I am not going anywhere...no one can scare me away because I am addicted to YT already!
I never said I hated you-I barely know you how can I hate you?!
Just because I don't do exactly as you tell me to do doesn't mean that I don't welcome the advice but I do have a mind of my own (and I would like to think it's pretty sharp-but not always) and in the end I think we all process the advice and then do what we think is best for OUR babies-which is our right to do.
I respect what you do and I am so happy there are people like you to be an advocate for the furbabies in the world who don't have a voice but my baby has an advocate already and that's me!
I don't want to go back and forth - I will respect your opinion as long as you respect mine.
Have a great weekend!!!
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Originally Posted by ladyjane  You are free to interpret anything you wish. I have been crystal clear in everything I have posted. If I felt that "its all abut money and because they accept that form of payment you are willing to go anywhere", I would have said so. I don't lurk in the shadows and if you stick around you will see that I say exactly what it on my mind. I have quoted you above...you did make up your mind at that time. I did not imagine it.
I said that I felt your mind was made up at that time...it was simply that...a time....and a point of reference.
You can hate me and my advice and even put me on ignore...just try not to put words into my posts. If you need clarification, ASK. Don't just say what you think I mean and stew over it.
I never said you are a bad owner either. I have continued to post for all of the other folks who want the advice that some of us offer. That was the point of my post...that while you had made up your mind, I was posting for the benefit of others who would actually welcome the advice. I do realize that there is another "force" on YT and people who don't exactly approve of what the majority does. Just not my problem. I say what I am thinking and they should as well...it is just too bad that they want it to look like a war and insinuate that many of us don't accept their ideas. Honestly, there are many whom I have no respect for as pet owners and they know it...BUT they are free to post here as is anyone else. The goal that I have is not to make friends, but to help the pups. If I make a few friends along the way that's a bonus.
Again......I ONLY have Lucy's best interests in mind. I have not attacked you as you seem to feel. Where your defensiveness is coming from...I don't know.
The one thing that is jumping out at me this afternoon is that you are really back where you started. If your vet had simply faxed records to the Univ of MN and you had waited, I believe that everything could have been done in one day. It almost looks like they are starting over? I don't know..I could be wrong. I had a long day and all I can say is that I am glad you are happy with this new vet. I do hope it all works out well for Lucy's sake. |