[Ashley V]

I agree with everyone else. She should be paying for this wedding... not YOU or anyone else. I planned my wedding in 3 weeks and we were flat broke so we scaled it down to a minimum. We got my tiara, veil, and decorations at AC Moore, we got our flowers from a local Vocational School from a flower arranging class, we made the food for the reception ourselves. There are ways for her to cut costs in a quickie wedding. Ask her what she needs help financially buying, then try to come up with ideas that may be cheaper for her. I like the idea someone gave about selling your old dress and maybe giving her the money from the sale. In my opinion, you already shelled out a large chunk of change for the first wedding that did not happen... you especially should not be responsible for paying for anything more than necessary. It's her wedding that her or her family needs to pay for.