I know how you feel. I started working more and more OT over the past few years, and now they just expect it. If it needs to get done, guess who stays late to do it? My bf used to work here too and he was doing the same thing. He got a new job where they don't expect ANY overtime, and if they do they will ask weeks in advance and you can still say no and it's not a big deal at all. He is so much more relaxed now, even at home, and he can plan his days and weeks and do whatever he wants. It opened my eyes and I will be applying for a new job soon too. Stress makes such an impact on your physical and mental health, and honestly I just don't think it's worth it anymore!
__________________ Lindsey and Layla, Lucy, and Kash |