I'm sorry, but I would have been upset with the first cancelled wedding. She should have at least offered to help pay for the dress that you bought then or at least offer to pay for this dress.
That being said, you should most definitely have a chat with her about not being able to spend extra money on her wedding. She needs a reality check and rethink having a wedding if she can't afford it. It's her/their wedding and therefore her/their expense.
I think it's very poor taste on her part to ask people other than her parents or fiance (if they are still alive) to help pay for the wedding. JMO |