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Originally Posted by celstu1  How old are your daughters? I know when I was 17 my mom decided to divorce my Dad. It tore our whole lives apart (in my eyes) and I HATED my mom for it. My Dad was AWWEESSOOMMMEEEE! LOL (again - in my eyes) As a 17 year old child, I was so mad at my mom for tearing my family apart. As a 34 year old WOMAN, I understand exactly why my mom did what she had to do and why she did it. Now my mom lives far away but I make sure to always remember her on mother's day and her birthday and send gifts in the mail, but there were many years I was a young, angry girl who never realized how much my mom sacrificed for me. (and I didn't even need to have kids of my own to realize this) (((HUGS))) they will come around! |
I think this is what's happening. I think they truely hate my guts. I divorced for them, because my ex was very mean and abusive. I once had fractured ribs and black eyes and had to go to work, so my coworkers have always encourage me and helped me with my self esteem. Maybe they still hold anger inside, I dont know.