[RONLYNN]

I'm so sorry!! the only thing I was thinking was that you said their dad was not around alot so maybe he asked to get together and they "jumped" at the chance to get together with him figuring that they can see you anytime because you are always there? I know my brother-in-law had a really flaky dad and he always jumped at the chance to see him thinking that his dad was really trying and wanted to see him but usually his dad would cancel at the last minute and disappoint him (yet my brother in law kept doing this over and over). Big hugs to you!!! It was so nice to meet you in Texas!!