I agree. I don't think it's really an Oliver problem. Oliver probably has feelings about another male around his mommy and needs time to adjust and get to know the newcomer. Oliver was there first. David is the newcomer to the pack.
I had a yorkie, Cricket, when I met my husband. I knew he was the one the way he was so patient with Cricket and how much she ended up liking him. Some of the other guys before him, not so much on the patience or kindness towards her. Husband made effort to get her to like him (always showed up w treats).
I think you need to talk to David and explain you and Oliver are a pack in Oliver's mind, and he needs to be patient and make effort towards Oliver. This is Oliver's home he is coming into. Oliver is just doing what a protective dog does towards someone he loves, he protects and checks them out.
Oh, and I think the only time Oliver may be "miserable" is when he is w inconsiderate David! I think is is perfectly happy w mommy!! |