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Originally Posted by katienme2002  I wanted to add that I love my daughter dearly (she is almost 9) but it really is the hardest job in the world. IMO...I wouldnt trade her for anything in the world, but I dont want any more kids..lol..I dont know if its because I cant handle it, or I am too selfish, I just know that I cannot do it again..lol..This girl keeps me on my toes to say the least, I try to be mindful of what she sees and hears on t.v. or anywhere, and then she learns the crap at school. Sometimes I am at my wits end..lol..Its so much easier with dogs..lol..My parents stay on my case about having more kids, and I tell them the baby factory is CLOSED..lol..They dont get it, but I honestly 100 percent know that most of the time I feel like I am losing my mind..lol.. |
You're the ONLY ONE who knows what makes you happy. Parents THINK they know what's best for us, but they don't. I get pressured a lot by my family to have kids (still). We're from Spanish, Catholic descent and not having children is almost a sin
I get the 'you have to have your children, it's not too late' sermon all the time. I've even had them say that my pooches aren't going to bring me a glass of water to bed when I'm old and sick
At first, I avoided a pregnancy like the plague, then later I tried to have a child. When I realize how tough it was, I asked myself who was I doing this for? It turned out that I was trying FOR my family...the wrong reason, so I stopped. Follow your heart, it will never mislead you
