ok heres my two cents- You can't expect someone to know what you are thinking (which was said in previous posts). If you expect something, then you are going to have to tell him your expectations. You said you have been together for 3 years. Well, unforunately after time you do start to take things for granted. I am not saying this is good or you should put up with it, I just think we get in a pattern of give and take from each other. I think a very good book is the old Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. I have been married 32 years and believe me, there are still hurt feelings and not getting it right. good luck with communicating. |