After my ex broke up with me and I had to sell my house, cancel my wedding and get over it.... he bought me a coach purse (yes, after we broke up) and he said something like it would be the only coach I would own. After that I went on a shallow streak and bought everything 'expensive' I could. I HAD to prove to myself that he was WRONG about that. That I would make it on my own and could be successful and have whatever I wanted.
NOW I'd rather spend my money on experiences than material items. I'd rather take a trip, see some part of the world. Or go out to dinner with friends or family and enjoy good company.
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |