[salazark]

I read your other thread, looked at your album and read this thread. Bless you. This is the most painful, thoughtful and unselfish decision you will have to make. I've been there. There's guilt - any time that you have to play God and decide that it's time. But time will heal you and help you understand that what you are doing is the ultimate unselfish gift that you have to give to Rufus. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Karen