[roseslevi]

Originally Posted by maddieadoptedme

You have been givin some good advice from many people. While it isnt always what we want to hear, that doesnt mean people are being mean. You came on wanting support--was it for you or Bee? While your scared and confused--Bee's health should be your concern. If you truely care aboout her then get he spayed right away. Let me tell you a story that COULD happen to Bee.
I was young and didnt know any better (maybe 19-20) and definatley didnt know anthing about breeding dogs and having a litter of pups. we lived in the mountians and the only vet around was a horse dr. i came home one day to find that my 6 month old female heeler who was in heat (in my fenced yard) had a male from a neighbor down the road tied to her.he had some how gotten in the fence. while she probably weighed 30 pounds and he was probably 50 pds, i didnt know there would be a problem if she did get pregnant. well she did. so about 60 days later she went into labor--i called the vets office and they said just watch her, she will be fine. 3 hours of heavy contractions i had to help get the first pup out, 3 more hours of heavy contractions the 2nd pup wasnt comming--i called the vet--they said she will be fine, just takes time. 2 more hours go by--the pup born dead.this was in the afternoon. heavy contractions went on all evening and no more pups were comming. i knew somthing wasnt right and she was having alot of trouble-i called the vet again, and asked if i could bring her in--they said she will be fine and if she hadnt had the rest of the pups by morning to bring her in. she cried all night and was in pain. i called them back and told them she was crying and nothing was happening--they said it was because se was young dog, and she will be fine. my beloved dog died that night in my arms with puppies still in her and i was left with 1 to raise ( a HUGE job in its self) i rased the pup and he was like having a real baby in the house-maybe more work than a real baby= i tell you this story because i wouldnt want this to happen to you. i was young, didnt know any better and had no one to tell me what to do. i only wish i had experienced people to guide me. dont rely on vets that dont know the breed. there was only 1 thing that suffered that night and that was my dog. and it all could have been avioded if i had her spayed early on the pregnancy. (spayed period) that was 25 years ago and her cries, and her death still haunt me. her death taught me a hard lesson.
Do you really want something like this possibly happen to BEE?

i wish i had someone be MEAN to me with advice and concern for my girl.

I am so sorry you had to go through this experience. I hope the OP reads this and decides to terminate the pregnancy for the welfare of Bee.