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Originally Posted by cally930  What I have learned on YT is that the breeders here...............know more than my vet about breeding and whelping these tiny dogs!!! |
I could not agree with this more, which is why we are all lucky, as a community, that the experienced breeders are still willing to help...despite the fact that they take so much heat for helping. Vets can be EXcellent diagnosticians, but when it comes to things like whelping, breeding, nutrition, specialty diagnoses - they have their limits, as they should.
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Originally Posted by BeyonceMomma23 you all want to know why I am not posting on here ? it's because most people have not posted in a nice supportive way. their opinions were nasty sounding & I don't feel like the people who are going to sound negative really deserve the reply. anyone who honestly cared about not only Bee but about ME reached out to me & messaged me or emailed me. not just asking if I was gonna reply. so to Armaniman & everyone else that's why I haven't responded, because you all made me upset with your mean sounding opinions. I was willing for open honest opinions. but most of yours sounded nasty. not ALL, but most. I was excepting nice helpful opinions & I am not the only one who thinks you were sounding nasty. so unless you're trying to be SUPPORTIVE i don't want an opinion or comment. thanks. have a good day.
-Lauren & Bee |
Lauren, I would say this as I would to any good friend: take some deep breaths!!! Several people are trying to support you through making a healthy decision for your beloved girl. This is a very emotional decision, so please bear that in mind as you respond to people.
I see very supportive and helpful posts here. I see concern both about your girl, and about you.
Don't beat yourself up about what happened
. Mistakes happen to all of us. Let the mistake go, and focus now on doing what is best for the best outcome.
I can only say what I'd think I'd do if I was in your situation: I'd have a spay immediately. Whelping, as we've seen here at YT, can often be life or death - even for those whom are most experienced.
There is no easy decision here, but I think there is one that would be the most safe and the most predictable for your kiddo.
Like I said, don't forget to take some deep breaths, have an open mind to suggestions, and try not to read into things in such a way that it clouds the message of the poster.
You
do have support, so use it!
